Real dreams always come true

I don’t know if it’s a human nature, or cultural habit or even psychological disease, and it doesn’t matter where has it came from, as long as I’m not looking for eliminating it more than identifying it. I’ve been looking for a name to describe such a phenomena so long and I didn’t find more appropriate than Future-Phobia.

2 days ago, I entered to a mosque to pray the sunset time, and I came across a man of who looks a bit old, and if I was asked to guess his age, I would say more than 60 years old, as his hair was completely white, his back slightly curved and his face shows a bunch of wrinkles, but what attracted me in this man is the way he was looking for a place in the mosque, although the Islam religion encourages people to stand in the front rows, this man wasn’t interested in getting additional rewards from God more than praying besides the mosque’s gate. I’d been thinking why preferring such a place, and the only scenario that fits with these circumstances is the hurry to leave the mosque. On my return from God’s House, I kept analyzing this man’s acts, and I realize that he wasn’t the only one who thinks about future more than the present, almost everyone does. Several examples can support this statement, such as our meal which consist to start with vegetables and keep the meat and dessert at the end, ignoring the nutritionist’s opinions, or baby clothes which every mother insists on buying them with one or two sizes extra so the baby can wear them the longest he can, and it doesn’t matter how he would look like at the beginning with clothes bigger than him. Another example that fits with this phobia is the way that bunch of people park their car, they make a lot of effort to park the car in reverse gear so they can take it out easily on their return, but after all it wouldn’t take more effort and time if he did the opposite.

I’m really feed up on attempting to convince people that future doesn’t count as much as the present does, because to view the present you just need the five senses unlike the future, which needs to powers of God to be seen.

Few years ago, I was watching a movie and suddenly a statement touched ma, a Man was explaining the most resisting object, I was surprised to learn that it wasn’t the VIH Virus, neither any type of metal, it was rather an Idea.

Once an idea is inserted in the Brain, removing it becomes almost impossible, and this slight chance to take it out from the brain requires a sharp strategy and decades. And I guess that’s what pushes the mothers to not buy clothes that fit with their babies’ size, rational arguments wouldn’t be enough to erase this idea, which becomes almost a religious believing.

The good thing I can learn from these folks is the way they’re attached to what they believe in, and although the others see them mistaken, it doesn’t matter as long as they’re very comfortable with their conviction, and this is something that everyone needs to care about. So their influence on me is to stick on what I see correct.